"Be patient with all that is unsolved in your heart. Try to live the questions themselves, like locked rooms or like books that are written in a foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers; they cannot be given to you because you could not yet live them. Gradually, without even noticing it, you will find yourself experiencing the answer some distant day." Rainer Maria Rilke
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
