MLC - standing by my man

[Mila]

Hi Shel - Yeah...the heating bill. His apartment and utilities are being paid through business...since he is working from there a lot...so it will get pro-rated business/personal use. But I paid that bill already and he received another one that he doesn't understand the credits and debits on, so he is not sure if anything is due and instead of finding out...he wants me to deal with it. That's typical, he just doesn't have the patience or interest to deal with it...and since it's kind of grey area since I do the business accounting he thinks that its OK to ask me to clear this up.

I'm happily working away in my office catching up on some stuff that I didn't finish because I had to take D to the doctor and H is working outside.

Then he calls up to me from downstairs and asks if we have any more recycle bags for tree clippings, I said all there is is in the shed...I just hear him sighing and then he said, could you go to the store to get me some? I was actually shocked that he would ask. In the old days I would likely leave whatever I was doing and go. Today I said sorry, I'm still working and want to finish this. I heard some unhappy sounds from downstairs and he went to get the bags. He came back 10min later without the bags...I think that the store was already closed. He must have been fuming.

I'm still upstairs and he just called up that he is leaving and that he will get the bags tomorrow and come back to finish up. I yelled back OK...bye and he left.

This is so 180 for me...In the past I would not let him leave without seeing him out. I'm pretty much ignoring him and hardly communicating with him, just the absolute minimum...Is that good? or am I making things worst....don't know

In the past when I was upset with him I kind of gave him the cold shoulder, I have a feeling that me being dark probably feels the same to him and he thinks that I'm angry with him.

To be honest I don't really care what he thinks as much as I used to.