WAW just called me to discuss our next "meeting" about addressing unresolved "issues" pertaining to the seperation.
She was fairly hostile towards me, said she was pissed at me that Im " getting my act together " NOW after her waiting for it for so long. I suppose that was to be expected. Validated her feelings about it, but bit my tongue on pointing out anything about it being a good thing for " us " or " better late then never" or anything similar.
She found out yesterday that I got another house, for myself. Its definetly WAY smaller then what we had, but it DOES have the ability for her and the kids to come " home " if she wants. Plus I've worked it out with the owner to buy it in a couple years, make upgrades,etc.
I can pay for it myself also, which goes a long way to curing one of her major gripes.
It almost sounds like she's regretting her decision and/or is pissed at me. Like, " You forced me to want to seperate , and NOW I moved out and NOW you choose to start doing all the things I needed you to do for so long ???!!"
Hmmmmmmmmm. Need to ponder this a bit. Im certainly not expecting her to come racing back next week or anything. But it SOUNDS like she's at least starting to have second thoughts/regrets but her pride or something is in the way.
