Mel, you can USE this to better work with your husband...
This woman has already given you some clues... the mess.. the exposure is a HUGE mountain to pass over...
In her book After the Affair, Spring writes that ENDING a marriage is as much work as REBUILDING one...
Many wayward spouses have this ridiculous idea that they can just fip a switch and the marriage is over... it doen`st work that way.. it takes a lot of work to sort through.. divorces aren`t done in a day... Certainly not emotionally...
CUriuos.. did you give this woman a STERN talking to, I certainly hope you set her straight!
