Hey BBJ, At the risk of over simplifying this whole mess, you just need to avoid this man at all costs. Dan: Hey what are you doing? BBJ right now I am talking to you....why what's up? NOT I am going to the schoolyard to bike ride!!!! Why do you have to be at the baseball game together? This may sound too simple but my parents rarely watched me play baseball.....I grew up reasonably well adjusted....the operative word is reasonably. Ok now here comes the 2X4....sometimes when I read your posts, I get the feeling you crave (for the lack of a better word)the contact with him .... both in person and on the phone or text. I agree with everyone here....stop doing everything for him. One more thing please explain what it is about this guy that you love? I am not trying to be a smartass...what do you find in this guy? Would he treat a friend the way he treats you?
