That's the thing... it's fine for people to give advice and even comment a little... but when they actively go out of their way to tell you that you haven't done the right thing and clearly by the actions they're able to see you don't love your S... I honest to God would have hit him if had said it to my face.
Luckily I kept me composure... to an extent. I didn't say anything I wasn't supposed to, but I let him know in no uncertain terms what I thought of him and his opinion.... and it wasn't incredibly polite... that's composed, right??
This guy isn't the youngest, but he has never had the most successful long term relationship. He's also a bit of a womaniser and as far as I'm aware, has never been able to stay faithful to one girl. Not someone who can brag to me about the wonders and success of a 'better marriage'.
No one really FULLY understands what's going on... but damn... that sucked. I was already in a pretty low place before hand, so this kinda knocked me for six. Still didn't break the tally though... today is day 11, no tears.
This thing with my W COULD have sprung up over night, or COULD have been building for years... but either way, seeing me face to face isn't going to magically fix everything. If she's feeling scared, pressured, possibly knee jerk reacting to the idea of leaving, then sitting down and TELLING her what she's doing wrong isn't going to help at all.
I'm now up to 7 days since I sent my last email to her... which makes it 10 days since she emailed me. I hate that I'm counting and I know I need to detach... but it's hard to stop caring. I'm not sure what else I should be doing.
Me: 29 H: 25 T:7yrs M:5yrs
Bomb: 23/04/10
Had no idea anything was wrong. Cheated so she could end it without talking.
