OM did send W a text message at 10:40 pm last night. I went to bed, and she had already checked it. I suspected she would. She did not say a word to me about being served. She did want to use our only car today she said to go shopping. The kids did a little play for both of us. It was fun. They also had a raffle, and W was rushing them to finish, so she could go. W asked if they wanted to go with her shopping, but they wanted to stay at home and go swimming.
I was putting a glass in the sink and looked out the window which faces the elevator. She looked at me with utter hatred and contempt. She looked so evil! It is strange that she is so mad at me, and she is the one cheating. It amazes me the attitude directed at me when she is putting me through hell. The kids are suffering too because she is having an A with this worthless piece-of-garbage OM.
Fun weekend again. I am enjoying the kids while she just goes off and leaves again.
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Oh, my wife put on the petition that we were separated on January 4 of this year, but she still wears the wedding ring. I am contesting this in my response.
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OM did send W a text message at 10:40 pm last night. I went to bed, and she had already checked it. I suspected she would. She did not say a word to me about being served. She did want to use our only car today she said to go shopping. The kids did a little play for both of us. It was fun. They also had a raffle, and W was rushing them to finish, so she could go. W asked if they wanted to go with her shopping, but they wanted to stay at home and go swimming.
I was putting a glass in the sink and looked out the window which faces the elevator. She looked at me with utter hatred and contempt. She looked so evil! It is strange that she is so mad at me, and she is the one cheating. It amazes me the attitude directed at me when she is putting me through hell. The kids are suffering too because she is having an A with this worthless piece-of-garbage OM.
Fun weekend again. I am enjoying the kids while she just goes off and leaves again.
LSG,
Thats what they do. It sucks, but thats what they do. Look forward, have a good time without the kids too.
OM did send W a text message at 10:40 pm last night. I went to bed, and she had already checked it. I suspected she would. She did not say a word to me about being served. She did want to use our only car today she said to go shopping. The kids did a little play for both of us. It was fun. They also had a raffle, and W was rushing them to finish, so she could go. W asked if they wanted to go with her shopping, but they wanted to stay at home and go swimming.
I was putting a glass in the sink and looked out the window which faces the elevator. She looked at me with utter hatred and contempt. She looked so evil! It is strange that she is so mad at me, and she is the one cheating. It amazes me the attitude directed at me when she is putting me through hell. The kids are suffering too because she is having an A with this worthless piece-of-garbage OM.
Fun weekend again. I am enjoying the kids while she just goes off and leaves again.
LSG,
Thats what they do. It sucks, but thats what they do. Look forward, have a good time without the kids too.
LSG,
Just to make your blood boil and its not an insult. I thought about this yesterday.
"Who is god?".
Well in the bible its said for family and with respect to love to:
1. Put god first 2. Then your spouse 3. Then your kids.
If you have proper order in your life things will be good.
Well...I wonder if the Sheriff will serve her tomorrow. It will be interesting to see the look on her face when they do. I am sure she has been told to say nothing. I cannot believe the behavior from her. She is acting so happy and not a care in the world after my response. I think she will see that I am little more serious. I need to be on the offensive from here on out. The attorney told me the way I need to do it. I cannot let her be the one calling the shots anymore.
I know she will have something up her sleeve. She already has some plans for the kids that she will do without me. I have to be very careful right now. She is capable of anything. I do not trust her or the OM.
She is already not paying my bills.
She is done most of all the things she can do to hurt me except for the kids. I will have to watch them very carefully.
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I have this sick feeling in my stomach today. I checked the our computer's history, and W is checking hers and his horoscopes, not mine anymore. I know it is over and she has moved on, but it still knaws at me. I see my W with her ring on and how beautiful she is on the "outside" and the fragrance from her perfume, and I long for the days that we bothed longed for each other. I miss the love we had for one another that is gone.
Anyways, I wonder when the motions will be delivered to her.
It is weird to have conflicting emotions about our marriage.
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Well the motions will be served by Thursday this week. I talked to the Sheriff today. I am in anticipation of her response to these. She was very quiet and said nothing about the response when she read it in front of me. It is now gone from the home.
I am sure she is talking to an attorney about them. I am a little anxious other everything because I do not a full-time job or full-time attorney yet.
I will keep it together through all of this though. I feel much more in control lately. I did not sleep well last night, and I have night sweats about it all, but I am not slipping back to my distructive behavior as in the past near as much.
It is a process I am finding.
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I have read this whole thread and I feel for you!!! No one deserves to be treated the way you have been. The rollercoaster is no fun but there is always something to be gained for having self respect, I find. It's good for the soul and good for relationships.
I appreciate the vote of confidence. It is rather worriesome to me right now with the temporary job over and no money coming in. I have not heard anymore from the other interview either. I am a little stressed. Also I do not have my hearing until the middle of August. I am doing okay, but it is stressful. W is also talking about taking the kids to Japan for a trip which she cannot do. It would be nice to have some relief, but it will not be for awhile.
I still have a lot more fighting to do for what is right for my me and my kids. I still need an attorney full time.
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