Yes, I still live here and commute every day to the big, bad city.
I think you've got my sitch correct...no, I am not remarried and he does still live in the state. He is now over by the Bay Bridge and he did finally marry the HO.
I don't discuss my personal life on the board due to a certain situation that transpired years ago. I will say this, I'm alive and living life to the fullest.
So there you have it...someone from your "neck of the woods" and you didn't even know it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.