We are all afraid at times. The important thing is not to let fear make your choices for you.
You said it sister!
I have lived in fear my entire adult life. It's crazy! I overcome my fears but it takes me a LOT of time. But you are right, as usual. I don't look at things like you do. You say I bring a lot to the table. I don't see it, but I'm trying. As I have such a horrible habit of doing, I look to see what I am doing wrong and what I need to fix to make him feel ok toward me. Heck! I'm in more control of my own situation than that!!!! I'll do and say what I need to and if he doesn't like it he can walk. Where to? Begging back to the broom I would guess. He's like a living, breathing, ping pong ball.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!