Here's what I'm leaning towards:

Quote:

Hi,

If you feel you need to clarify things then please do.

I've consulted with my lawyer on the division of assets. I realize you need your stuff soon so I recommend that you make your list and send it to the lawyers sooner than later. Thanks.


Should I add anything like I'm trying to be as reasonable as I can whether you want to believe it or not. We should keep DD's best interest in our minds and make the situation OK for her?

On the one hand I feel like I can't communicate with her to plan things out like I've always done and we can't be open to one another. On the other hand if I say something like that then she knows (she already does) how strongly I feel about DD's well being and she'll use that against me.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again