"She can make a list of what she wants. Please let me know if you want to ask her for that list or if you would prefer I ask her attorney for it. I do not think there is an advantage to my asking for it."
duh! I know she can make a list but is that the preferrable option? I hate it when you ask "is A better? or B better" and people will respond with a "yes".
So I'm getting ready to send her my response (without the duh!) what do you guys think? I want to be reasonable about stuff, I don't want to be a jerk to her making things worse. By me asking to clarify on DD's school I don't think I am but asking her to draw up a list of things when she needs her furniture now I maybe ? Books and other small stuff? hmm...I think she needs to be specific about what this stuff is. But will that piss her off? probably.
Comments/suggestions?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again