Let him know this so he isn't blind sided. Then get out of it. He gets to figure it out. If he doesn't want to take them to daycare so be it. If he doesn't want to use the sitter, that is fine too. And you know what, you are okay with that too. It is called being divorced.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory