Well, it does sound like a mess, but if you are committed to making your marriage work and keeping your family together, it can be done. You have to be willing to do what it takes. I see marriages succeed even when things looks so dire. If you aren't talking to a DB coach, I suggest you do, as they are experts in helping you to see clearly what your plan should be to get your marriage back on track, and withdrawing from the OW. I wish you all the best.
Karen, Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004 karen@divorcebusting.com
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