Have been emailing WH a lot. Getting things off my chest. The inconistencies in his reasoning. I know it's bad BDing, but I don't care.
Sometime we need to cleanse ourselves and just say what we feel is necessary.
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I am like, we all wanted to live in Europe. Why don't you dump OW and have the baby and me?
seriously! good for telling him that!
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The fact is, he wants OW not his baby.
So he thinks... for now...
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His mother was due to stay with me while she is here. Then my family sort of went off the idea because they think i shouldn't have to worry about accomodating her. But i think it would be good, don't you?
If you are comfortable with her staying with you and feel that it would help you then yes, i think its a good idea. Hard as it may be, dont do it for the wrong reasons, like OW or to get H to notice. That will happen no matter what. I do think the bonding experience between your D and IL's cant hurt anyone, it would only do some good. Why not accept the support and help and love from them... your daughter and you both deserve it.
