EC, its just hypocricy.. if he doen'st want the marriage, that mean's he isn't "gettin any" either...
Also, i have seen several women on here who got an STD from having sex wtih their errant husband.. NOT a GOOD IDEA!
I know it seems counter-intuitive, and you will have to gauge this, but right now I would say NO to the idea of physical interaction...
Once he's on the fence mroe and a lot more confused.. like he's on his way back and is a bit confused.. THEN maybe... but not before he needs that one little nudge..
Right now your husband's head is a mess full of garbage from the addiction and the OW coaching him on how to destroy a marriage... His head is full of misinformation ...