Your H could give my H a run for his money as "BS Master".
I know it is terribly painful to hear these things. If this makes you feel any better NONE of what your H is saying is unique. It's lame and a way for them to blame shift so they can *try* and push aside the feelings of guilt or shame.
My H doesn't regret his affair either. He once said "I never wanted to hurt you" and my response was "ok, then what exactly where your intentions?". Funny he had no answer!
Clearly these long conversations are not productive as the two of you never got to discussing what needed to be discussed (finances and such) so avoid them if you can in the future.
I know it is maddening to hear this crap. Stay strong!
Thanks CG!
Yup, H said the same thing "never meant to hurt you. you know I have a good heart. never thought I'd fall out of love with my wife"
sh!t, if I had another piece or arse on the side, I'd hate him too! lol jerk.
you're right.. it's like we keep jumping on this merry (or should I say not so merry) go around.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
