I need help in the biggest way. I feel so helpless

[timehealsall]

She's probably still in shock.

I know I was when I heard a speech pretty much like the following:

he can't stand me, hates me, doesn't like touching me, kissing me, sleeping with me. He can't stand to even look at me. Hopes that one day I can hurt like I hurt him.

My W had ideas about the type of woman that would be good for me too on top of that. Sigh.

He's mad, he blames you for his own affair, and it's easier to turn you into a punching bag than live with the guilt. Sad stuff. You're going to be OK.

You might have made some mistakes in your M (who hasn't?), but you didn't make him cheat, and nobody deserves this.

Yup, he does. a "rich guy who will take care of me" ugh! I've never been like that! he makes me out to be a golddigger! (which he has also called me!) I have always worked (since I was 15)... throughout HS and college, i worked multiple jobs as well. I supported him and always contributed to everything.. Anything I made was made for US, not me or him. I'd easily give him money to buy himself something before I bought myself something... it's ridiculous.

I do need to go dark and worry about. I feel calm today. I wish I can stay like this. it's like I'm realizing more and more that he is just not right and there is nothing i can do or say to change that.