I asked if she would like to continue MC. She said she didn't see the point, that I didn't like what the C had to say. I wanted the C to put all the blame on her, I didn't accept any responsibility for anything, blah, blah, blah. (All of which isn't true)
Don't let her get away with that. Women use statements as questions - Did you like what what the C had to say? Do you want to put all the blame on me? Do you accept responsiblity for anything? Next time use this as a opportunity to address the issues. Really listen to what she is saying.
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I understand if you don't agree and am okay with that. If you are sure that's what you want, let's not put it off any longer."
this is good, note the reaction
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She said to stay and eat supper. Stay and sit down. She didn't mean that she wanted to get the L involved right now, just that it was a possibility down the road.
note what got some positive movement, stay aware and lead
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
