I have not heard anything more from H on the txt front.All has gone quiet now 18 days after the latest one.I am not sure what space he is in but he doesnt seem to be pushing D, she is without a doubt.I dont feel, despite what he does that divorce is the right thing.I am not feeling any desire to end my marriage.

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith