I agree with wii, don't cut-off contact but don't be eager to initiate contact either. Let her initiate. Hanging out together on certain occasions is probably good. You need to let her be on her own for a while like Karen said. Just my $.2
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again