Hmm...he is using finances to control you? Get your goat? Do you think he is feeling a loss of control over something and could be taking it out on the finances? Just a guess. My dad would do this!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004