Another bad thing, a local place where I would hang sometimes and she also, she has friended some of the help on facebook and I fear my reputation is being smeared there as well.
Those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind. Do you really need friends who would fall into a story of slander? Anyone with half a brain can tell someone is just trahing someone. Obviously she is aware she can push your buttons with FB, so get off of there.