There's some serious trust panic in the home right now, which is normal...
So, set your phone down on the coffee table in front of you one day and when she accuses you of things... tell her...
Go ahead, look at the cell phone... Those who have nothing TO HIDE, hide NOTHING...
We need to be able to trust each other if we are going to repair anything here and I am adult enough to put my feet in the water first... look at the phone... you can look at it ANY TIME you WANT TO... just ASK...
Can YOU tell ME the SAME?
That means YOu are acting destructively, where as I am not... I am trying to rebuild and repair, not escape and hide like a coward... I want you to trust me, so go ahead.. look at hte phone
