[quote=elvencat I guess I'm still thinking in terms of "I don't want to lose him" rather than in terms of "this is what has to happen for me to want to be with him". If he can't handle the truth ('nother movie reference, I know ), then I need to find somebody who can. Right? [/quote]
You got it.. write it on a recipie card if you have to...
this is NOT about holding ONTO the old lying cheating weasel.. he's out the door...
this is about him findign the new honest, committed, adult... he's IN the door
), then I need to find somebody who can. Right? [/quote]