Just tell her you want the full time you are "allowed" that day, end of story. Quit sweating it. Quit worrying about her plots and plans because really you are giving her way too much power in your life.

You will be surprised how happy you begin to feel once you do this. Honestly.

hugs, kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory