Whew! I leave the boards alone a couple days and look what happens LOL.

OT has it exactly right.

Break the cycle Mish.

You do deserve better. And just avoidance was the name of the game for so long does NOT mean it cannot change! You can demand different.

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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