Yesterday he said he was taking my daughter to see the Karate Kid. I thought that was fine since he never really spends time with her.

They left at 10:00 and didnt come home until 7:00. Then my daughter tells me they went this this lady who was really nice and the lady took her to her house and painted her nails and went to chuckie cheese. I was flabergasted who is this woman. I asked H and he said oh she is just a lady I teach her kids skateboarding.

I said well you should have told me you were letting this lady take my daughter. And he said she's my daughter too I can make the judgment on where she goes without your permission.

Then he said he was done with our relationship for good and to get the divorce papers because he cant afford an attorney. I videotaped where he keeps his pot and bond which are in the bathroom after repeatedly telling him to move it he doesnt think there is anything wrong with that.

His parent dont care that he smokes pot, I guess, they keep saying they will talk to him but they never do.

He says he is going to change his phone number so I have no way to get ahold of him. And I told him I want my computer back and I am worried he is going to destroy it. Should I go with a police officer to get it back of his mom. I am letting him use it until June 21.

He thinks he can let this lady I dont know take care of our daughter...i dont know if its his OW. BUt he says he has nowhere to live although last night he packed up all of his stuff. I dont really need help on DBing I just need advice with what i should do. Should I show the lawyer the video of the pot? Can he change his number so I cant get ahold of him?


Me30
H38
D6
Married for 7 years
Relationship before marriage 3 years
Husband is sending me on the biggest rollercoaster in the world.