MLC with a side of infidelity

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As far as myself, I joined a gym andI'm trying to get there 3 times a week at least. I try to read alot on the current problem so I know what is going on, MLC is new to me, so I have a lot of reading to do(need list of books). I'm trying to get more involved with church, little tricky with my schedule.

Old thread in infidelty basically outlines the A, timeline, actions taken, reactions, and a lot of pleading for advice. Her non-effect of most of what I tried and the other things she's been doing in relation to family and work and DD's has me on these boards.

I don't see many WAW(W)/MLC successes, which scares the crap out of me.

Then, her seeing a lawyer today has got me jittery also, I'm trying to detatch, but worrying about being served is no fun.

Told her last night that I thought it over, and am not asking her to move out, but that she can if she wants, or not. She says a recently D lady she knows has a room she can rent cheap.


Resource thread above doesn't work right. Is there a recommended reading list, book wise?