I wish Robx would show up here. I think it's him that has the nifty little bit about telling your W to go to the OM. Something like, "I have decided that this M as it is now isn't what I want either. OM is who you want and you should go to him. I will help you pack." Something like that.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08