My W sent me a text this morning asking me about the conversation I had with my sister lastnight that she apparently was eavsdropping on while I was in my room. I'm not sure what she heard but she knew I was angry.
I spoke with W this morning she has no idea that I know she has contacted the OM. I explained to her that she isn't showing me any respect and i can't be her door mat any longer. I told her I mailed off the D Petition today and she should hear back from the courts soon enough.
Did you somehow document what you found last night? Print anything up - just so you have a clear record?
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She got upset and started crying and said she thinks I hate her. Ummmm has she forgotten that she asked for this D, and the fact that she is still having talks with OM????? I'm sure if I brought conversation with OM she would make some excuse like she has in the past that it was about work, or her schedule, blah blah blah
No. She most certainly has not forgotten. She is starting the spin. The retelling. The rewriting of history that will make her look like the sad wife whose H divorced her. That is much easier to live with for the rest of your life than her being the adulteress.
You've taken the right step. Gucci was correct. I applied way too much hope to what she was saying. He advised you to pay close attention to what she is doing - and, well, you did that and now you know. Mailing the petition was a strong act and the right one.
Does OM have a W? Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
