Hope it's ok if I hop onboard

[ericmsant2]

Fud

Glad your back. You have taken one step...a very important step...know this.

I don't think my H is truly having an MLC.

It really doesn't matter. MLC, WAS, Crazy...whatever the hell you want to call him - it really does not matter right now. What matter is....

I do know that he has a valid point about my abusive behavior and I'm doing the things I can to make changes

That right...this ^^^^ matters. That you acknowledge your role in this and work hard to fix YOU. That's right YOU. You can't control him but you can control you. Fix you and well....who knows what will happen.

basically he hoped for me to change for so long that he finally gave up.

He may have gave up buy YOU have not. You have not...don't give up on YOU. Cause you are the one that really matters.

I do know my H though and he'll never step up to the plate

You may think you know your husband but people change...people grow and when they do their ideas and thoughts of others changes as well. Change you for now...let him...figure his own stuff out.

Hope is not based on anything you see, hearl or feel. It is just that HOPE>

YOur hope should be...a HOPE for YOU.

God
I have to run to a meeting but I will back to you in a bit.

Bless,
Eroc