As far as he knows I have withdrawn completely from him: I don't contact him, email him, etc. I don't ask his friends about him. At the wedding I acted "as if". I'm assuming you mean on my end stop worrying about what he is doing, etc and dettach that way. I'm working on it! It's so hard as you can imagine.
A lot of the things I'm doing with checking cell phone, etc is to keep for my records depending on what happens down the line as I may need to use that for evidence during the divorce.
What I meant in terms of legally - is that I know that in the eyes of the law he is being "adulterous" in terms of the legal definition and I could file for divorce based on adultery. I was talking about if he had the "right" to date and sleep with other people since we were seperated.
I do believe he has an addiction. I am doing telemeeting with a group called COSA (co-dependents of sex addicts).
