I think OM wants me to hear the good news about him moving. He's done this before. I give him about a 50/50 chance of really moving based on his past lies. I don't think either OM or W knows that I have the messages. I haven't said anything and I don't see how else they could know. I just listened to her old messages and forwarded a few to my phone which I keep to myself. BTW, I wish I could block his # on her phone, but the provider doesn't have that option. If I could, I'd do it in a heartbeat. I've thought about disabling or hiding her phone, but I don't think that's the right way to handle it. She'd probably just get a new one and be more stealthy about it.

Thanks, WhatNow. I'll wait and see what happens.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.