After Cori's ex, several times, went on screaming rampages at the normal drop off point (a rest. mid-way) and then threatened to hunt me down and kill me while ALL our kids were in the car, as I was backing out of the parking lot for a pick-up...
we decided to use a family visitation center
drop offs and pick ups are monitored by a staff and video cameras. We arrive 10 mins before drop off time and get to leave 10 mins after she picks her up
it has been a tremendous stress reliever for us and has made pick ups and drop offs easier and we have court documentation now that she does show up late and drop off late etc etc