Yes, P, I think it would be good to stay solid with WH's family. Not for the sole reason that it would bug OW but it will be a nice "side effect!"

You will be able to use the support, and it is more pressure against WH and OW!!!!

BTW if you choose to have your WH's surname somewhere in your daughter's name then it also represent his side of the family, don't you think? BIL, grandma, etc.?

Instead of the future being a black hole, change it to a vision of bright, starburst galaxy. Make it wide open! You never know what will happen. And if I can do it, you can do it. (like the people say in the weight loss commercials, haha!)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004