Newbie: going to try Ghandi method

[AntoniaB]

Get this: he said he'd tell his parents and I asked what he would say. He said "the truth." I said "Are you going to tell them that you left me for an affair with another woman?" He said he wouldn't put it that way because it cheapened it. I said "it is cheap. Own what it is." I really think he thinks what he is doing is on this pedestal, like "look at me, I had the guts to do something for me and no one else, and no one ever does that, so I'm better than others."