Yes I read newmama... but I would not reccomend exposing TO the OW, she knows what she's doing...

Exposure is a complex tactic... I would not have reccomended sending an anonymous email to the OW with a video of her driving WS H home... That to my mind isnt' exposure...

I am thinking of something more public and less direct, as well as legal.

It's not a matter of everyone KNOWING, its a matter of them KNOWING the detail...

To everyone's mind its just a scandalous activity that everyone's tryign to cover up or pretend isn't happening...

To my mind that's NOT an exposed affair... It's a suppressed one...

Lets first see what Larry can do... it's been three years now and I would like to think those two are fighting a lot... which means a more gentler tactic at home may have some impact...

I like to be optimistic so lets not contaminate the experiment and keep focussing on larry for now...

Just understand the exposure that's been done so far to my mind wasn't the most effective route...