I'm not sure how to address this other then telling her it will be ok and she will figure it out. I will always be there for our son to help out.
Well, you don't address it by invalidating what she is feeling which is what you do when you say it's going to be OK and she will figure it out.
You are basically saying what she is feeling is wrong when you do that. The standard line here is "I'm sorry you feel that way", but "yeah, that's tough, but you can do it" is validating with a positive spin.
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