Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks guys!

Well today I went to pick DD up and she seemed upset as soon as I got there DD went and hid (was kinda funny initially) that ticked her off I think and she was like where did she go? she was just here- rolling her eyes and throwing her hands up. I didn't think it was a big deal. Anyway, DD cried again saying she wanted to stay with mommy (kinda tough for me). After lots of hugs to mommy and lots of tears we were off. She was pouty for a while and then she warmed up quickly and we went to an urban farm, pet the animals etc, spent quite a bit of time there. Then we went to a lake and walked around (pics in the alt). We were walking past this kids fine arts school and DD loves to draw and color (very vivid imagination). We went in and saw other kids drawing and coloring, she was in awe. I picked up their flyer to see if I could sign her up...it's just so tough, a few months ago it wouldn't have been a no-brainer.

I got her an inexpensive toy, we ate lunch, she played with the neighbor's kid, I made ground beef+potatos+green peans over rice which we both enjoyed for dinner. She's actually finishing up while watching a cartoon.

I sent a few of DD's pics to STBXW from earlier today, not sure why really...but no response. Big surprise! she could've just said a simple 'thanks' but nothing. So from now on I won't send her any pics of DD even. Amazing what she's become...really just mind blowing.

So...I still don't know how I'm going to respond. I could stick with my response above (without the duh!) or I could tell her I'll talk to the attorney but what if the attorney says it's fine to split. I'd much rather do it all in one shot so that everything gets decided at once. Suggestions?