I do agree with you that he obviously didn't expect her to come by since he asked me to. The FB thing is just a conduit to her being in constant contact with him. Unacceptable.
As far as him not being interested in her. Ummmm...excuse me but he had a 3 year R with her. She is the one that kicked him out. He said he loved her. There is nothing that says he wouldn't go right back to her if she invited him. He hasn't said he wants to be with me. He hasn't given me any indication that he wants anything more than this bed buddy R we seem to have. He does loving things for me but he always did even during the worst of it.
He didn't come home from work. He told me he was going to have drinks with the guy he was talking to. He then called me to tell me he was going to Hooters to hang out for a while. He's avoiding coming back. Avoidance is classic in our R. I asked him to come home and talk to me but he said he couldn't handle the tension and wasn't coming back until late if at all.
So there you have it. I'm more than likely right. History repeating itself. I'm too tired to fight anymore.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!