just had a "mate" on facebook log into chat and ask me how I was doing. We exchanged plesantries for about 5 minutes before he said:
"If you loved her you would have hopped onto the first plane back".
I said that I do love her and he said "Bullshit. Prove it".
I told him he was being an [censored] and not helping and to back off... I thought that if I went there she would leave... that she would only run if I chased her.... and I still don't know the extent of the affair.
Added to this, this guy, along with almost everyone we know still don't know about the affair at all.
... did I do the right thing? SHOULD I have chased her?
Damn I hate this.
Me: 29 H: 25 T:7yrs M:5yrs
Bomb: 23/04/10
Had no idea anything was wrong. Cheated so she could end it without talking.
