Hello all. I’m new to the MLC board, but unfortunately not to the boards as a whole.
In a nut shell, I processed through and survived a seperation/EA situation 5 years ago, which most of my posts are fading or gone.(by the way, if anyone know how to access super old posts I would appriciate it)
My current position you can see on the thread above. After closer examination and more time under my belt with the current mess I’m in, and some reading on the MLC board here and the MLC in DR, I’ve come to the conclusion my W is in a MLC, not sure how severe though, hence why I’m here.
She is in an A with OM who lives over an hour from us, he is former high school classmate, and TM EA from 5 years ago. She hates everything about her current state of being, from me(biggest) to her job, to the daily routine of taking care of DD’s with me and other responsibilities, and she has alienated most of mine and her family. She has rewritten the entire M into a string of unpleasant events, with no good ones at all in our 15 yr M(17 together).
She seems confused on all matters, and lies about lies, and then lies some more, not even caring if she gets caught in them.
I have seen a lawyer so I know what to expect if she files, and I know that she is going to see one tomorrow, not sure if it is to file, or just try to figure out how to try to get me out of the house during a separation.
I plan on staying in the house with the DD’s, and she may choose to stay, or go get an apartment, or wherever, but I’m taking the role of primary caretaker at this time, even if I need to hire some sitters at certain points. I’ve told her that if she does move out, that she can come and go as she pleases to help take care of the girls, but that I will be there whenever I want.
Not sure what the major rules of thumb are for MLC sitch, so if anyone can chime in I would appreciate it. Thanks
from my fortune cookie,,,,,,"Adversity is the test for strong men" Me -44 WAW - 43 D14 D8 EA/PA mid May,2010 WAW moved out- 07/01/10 WAW filed 07/01/10
