So.... I have confirmed my suspicions again that WH was visiting a different prostitute on Saturday (after wedding). I was able to access the phone logs today and then searched craigslist and found the woman.
I guess I just don't know what to do at this point. I obviously don't want to get divorced but I could never be married to who he is now - thats not the man I know. I am not emotionally ready to file for divorce (even though I could because he is committing adultery). Secondly, as bad as this sounds if I stick it out the next 11 months he will continue to pay his portion of house/bills so I will still be able to live here. If he files after a year I could always counter file with adultery and try to get some alimony but its not guaranteed that will happen and even if I do I'm not sure it would be enough for me to continue to live in this house.
Also, I had a question. I see a lot of people on here talking about dating/sex. I know "techincally" what husband is doing is cheating but since we are seperated is it fair that I would call him out on that:? I'm just trying to figure out if I'm overreacting or what.