If You Forget Me #71

[flowmom]

(((hugs))) Kalni. It's a terrible thing to have trust broken. Flirting outside M can be relatively innocent, but it only works when there is a solid and earned foundation of trust. I feel sad to think that you are having to confront this kind of thing without it. I agree that it would be strategic to not confront. IMO, this isn't about setting a boundary because if he wants to do something inappropriate...he will. In your sitch I would want to know that my H was choosing to be faithful of his own accord. OTOH, people can compartmentalize flirtation and emails/messages can sound like more than they are.