When he pursued her the first couple years after we got together she was 18 to 22. Now she's 32 and we have two kids together. Im not saying your wrong gucci, but really is it fair to say that what a woman wanted at 18 to 22 is the same as at 32 ? Aside from the obvious generalities of course.
I mean, the fact we have kids, including a BABY (7 mos) has GOT to have SOME kind of effect on her in moments of clarity. Their two will be 18 and gone in 3 years max. Our son will barely be three when that day comes.Now, Im sure as hell NOT hoping it takes anywhere NEAR that long to reconcile this, but I'll bet its a better then even chance that once their twins are out and on their own, plus the time and distance for us to slowly start rebuilding, that once the twins hit 18 she wont have a whole helluva alot of reason to stay with him, as opposed to giving us another shot. And TBH, Im pretty sure thats probably my limit of how long Im willing to try to fix this. Now sure some people will probably think Im nuts for even waiting that long but so be it.
A friend made a pretty good observation that Im going to need to stew over. She has gotten her chance to "vent " and rant and rave and display her anger towards me. He suggested that I should have every right to do the same. I dont mean iin the same nasty,viscious way she did the other day, but just admittimg to her Im angry and why. I asked this question last night if this was a good idea or not and have yet to get a reply
