I'd take a good look at gucci's words tbart. Recently you moved apart from her and she chased you by initiating hugs and such. I have found the more you move away, the more they chase...or not. If they don't want you at all, they won't chase. If there's part of them that still does, they'll chase.
It's the mindset you have of waiting that's the problem. That's the frustrating part. If you decide in your mind that you're not going to 'wait' for her, then the time frame disappears. No more wondering, worrying, thinking.
If you weren't 'waiting' what would you be doing differently than you are now?
Take some time and think about it.
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