I feel like i need to contact WAW

[knightinneed]

Tech Guy the 2x4's are welcome, they honestly are. I had considered your earlier advice as well for stalling, but it seems WAW thinks I am on the attack. I guess the reason I considered Shared/Joint was exactly what you were thinking " To throw her bone " so to speak.

I am feeling better today, detaching more but I keep wondering about all this and what to do. I did find OM has moved out of his mothers house where WAW is. I think OM W may have been wrong as she is still there, but I noticed on FB that OM removed WAW from his profile. And OM W removed OM from her profile.

I havent heard back from OM W, and I dont really want to go out of my way to talk to her, as I will just let her call me. I guess at this point on the surface it seems if this affair is down the tubes, but who knows I just feel like going dark because everything is so stressful. I will answer calls from OM Wife if she does call though.

I do feel WAW needs help, and I know she does not think she is crazy so you maybe right, but her decision making has been down the tubes since we were split by the courts in April. I guess you and City Girl likely see no hope for me to hang on, with all the craziness that has gone on and well I guess I am seeing this start to fade as well. I need to think long and hard and after no contact is lifted I guess I will know more, but as of now I feel im too involved in WAW's life through all these people that were pulled into our mess.


Gucci, I agree I will talk with OM W, but do you think I have a shot at any semblance of a real relationship to look forward too? I mean busting a affair is good, but Im just not sure what I gain other then the satisfaction of doing it. At this point WAW hates my guts.

City Girl, I do agree and well I just want to do whats right for my daughter, I just hang on to hope that WAW will settle down and stop all this madness.

Got to spend time DD1 today and well it was great, we fell asleep together at my sisters and fun playing.

Thanks to all you whom have commented, more comments advise is welcome by all means.

Me 36
WAW 29
together 2/12 yrs
Married 1 year
Bomb 4/22/10
Currently headed toward divorce