Okay, so here's what I've done so far:

1: Re-entered the work force to keep me busy
2: ALWAYS try to look attractive when I leave home. He is 80 miles away so the only thing I can hope for is that he Hears I Look Good.
3: Made an effort to keep in touch with my stepsons and their families/my grands.
4: Have the house listed. Went looking at homes in town with his aunt, who is a Realtor.
5: My lawyer entered the last filing with Request for Admissions on May 13th. WH/his lawyer has not responded.
6: Doing my best to keep the place up. We have almost 8 acres.
7. Financially doing well. Husband required to pay all household bills until divorce final, at which time I'm eligible for 1/2 his retirement, 1/2 Social Security ( if there's any there )

We've been separated x3 months, with n/c x 4 weeks. Does anyone have any other suggestions of things I should be doing?