Confused and looking for advice

[hockeymom12]

So I contacted H last night to ask him to come to the house early to finish up some stuff for the open house that I was not going to be able to get to, of course he did not answer, so I just left a quick message asking him if he would be able to do what I asked and then told him to text me his answer. I never heard from him so 45 minutes later I checked his voicemail and my message was not on there. I assumed he was waiting for me to keep trying to contact him as that is what I would have done in the past when I did not hear from him but I did not do this. Then this morning I was at work and H shows up at my work, he asks me when I called him as he did not get my message until this morning, I tell him when and drop the subject, I am not sure what to believe, maybe his cell phone did act up but I do not think so. Anyways he goes on to talk about other stuff and then leaves to go to the house.

When I get home I just go into my room to change so that I can go for a walk, he doesn't want me around when he is here so I thought I would leave again. He catches me in the kitchen and starts talking about the open house and this and that, after 5 minutes I leave the house and as I am leaving he yells out good bye, so I replied back to him good bye. As I was walking he pulls up beside me and proceeds to talk about stuff that he did not need to talk to me about right away, I find it funny for someone who does not want to chit chat with me how he initiates it all the time. After a couple of minutes I put my headphones back on and say good bye and walk away.

So I managed to not break any rules today but I am having another crying day. He keeps asking our D15 to move in with him and this upsets me and then apparently he is calling me his ex-wife to everyone who came to the house today, both of these hit me like a ton of bricks.