Great advice, Allen. It is so much easier said than done, though. But, you are right - everything you say makes sense. What do you do with an addict who will not even admit what he is doing? When you know for sure, have all the proof you need, but still, he denies. Is it the same strategy?
Me:36 H:38 Together: 20 years Married: 16 years Kids: 13 & 10 yr. old Discovered affair: 1/10 H denies affair. Refuses to save marraige. Divorce filed: December 2010